Date: June 17th 2008

From: panjpani@gmail.com Date: Friday, June 13, 2008

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KABUL: The girl was 11 when she was molested by a man with no legs. He paid her $5. And that was how she started selling sex. The girl is now 13, and her features have sharpened into striking beauty. She speaks four languages — Pashtu, Dari, the Urdu she picked up as a refugee in Pakistan and the English she learned in a course in Kabul. She is the breadwinner in her family of 10. She does not know what a condom is. She has not heard of AIDS. Afghanistan is one of the world’s most conservative countries, yet its sex trade appears to be thriving. Sex is sold most obviously at brothels full of women from China who serves both Afghans and foreigners. Far more controversial are Afghan prostitutes, who stay underground in a society that pretends they don’t exist. Customs meant to keep women "pure" have not stopped prostitution. Girls are expected to remain virgins until their wedding nights, so some prostitutes have only anal sex. Police make two to three prostitution arrests each
week, according to Zia ul-Haq, chief investigator in the interior ministry’s department of sexual crimes. They are often the casualties of three decades of brutal war and a grinding poverty that forces most Afghans to live on less than $1 a day. "Prostitution is in every country that has poverty, and it exists in Afghanistan," says women's rights activist Orzala Ashraf. "But society has black glasses and ignores these problems. Tradition is honor, and if we talk about these taboos, then we break tradition." It's hard to know how many other women in Afghanistan are prostitutes because of the extreme secrecy around the issue. A University of Manitoba report last September estimated about 900 female sex workers in Kabul.